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Spencer's avatar

Wow. This is beautiful and profound. I am in the midst of a similar journey - from all-consuming and intense workaholism to a more balanced and fulfilling life freelancing.

This transition remains hard because I have to put aside this version of myself who IS really great. Godzilla gets stuff done. I worked so hard to get here, to survive and I am proud of it. But I don't like what it does to me when I come home from work. I need another way.

It's a work in progress and I'm still not sure who I am if I'm not this productive, high functioning guy. "It's not about doing, it's about being" my French therapist seems to say every session, frustratingly. I want to do the work to figure it out but even that kind of misses the point!

Anyway, thank you again for sharing this.

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Brenna's avatar

Yes yes a thousand times yes. I love how you have a different name for your perfectionist workaholic (Godzilla). I usually think about "Boss Brenna". She's always wearing a pencil skirt. I thought it was supposed to be me in the board room and pencil skirt! But now I picture myself without undergarments in a linen dress and seashell jewelry. HA.

Kate Moss traumatized us in the 90s...will Cheryl Sandberg be the villain of the 00s?

Keep going Liz!!! Good job!!!

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