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Liz, I am so glad to have found your writing. It's beautiful, as is your story. So much resonates with me, from the healing power of the Neuse River (my grandparents lived in New Bern and I spent my summers at a camp along its banks), to the contemplation of children never had, to the journey of reinvention. Especially when it comes to work. In 2019/2020, I stepped back from full time work and spent much time and effort redesigning my life. It tough but rewarding work, and I am cheering you on. You are an inspiration!

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Hi Em! So nice to hear from you! The stepping back from full-time work is a wild identity ride, I tell you. If you're up for a coffee chat sometime, I'd love to hear about your journey and learn from someone who is further ahead on this path. Thank you for the lovely note, and for reading!

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Liz, I would love to connect. I'm at emily.silberstein@gmail.com - let's find some time to chat.

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This article resonates with me. I have also moved away from a top corporate job to work in impact. Some of the factors that influenced my decision are similar to yours. I am looking foward to reading more of your beautiful writing. I wish you all the best in your new journey.

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Hi Emily! Congrats on your move as well. So nice to hear that this resonated with your experience as well. Thanks for the note and thanks for reading.

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I loved reading this, and your other posts. My journey is one of leaving education work after a loss, but there are many parallels. We reliable-but-exhausted helpers are not in these healing initiatory woods alone, even though solitude itself is part of the medicine. I’m grateful for the company and conversation you offer in your writing here. - Ryan (Alexis Berthier’s old friend)

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Hi Ryan - What a wonderful, validating note this is. Yes, solitude is part of the medicine and so is company, as you put it so well. I'm sorry for your loss but glad your journey has also been a healing one. Thank you for reading and for sharing your experience too!

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It’s a privilege, Liz ❤️

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I suspect self love based in unquestioned worthiness is the hardest love. I’m glad you’re on the journey and I know your progress will serve you and others (not the point, but I’m selfish that way!).

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Hi Caryn! It's definitely the hardest. I feel like adulthood should come with a disclaimer on that front. People engaging with this journey is healing in a way I never expected when I started this little blog last summer, so I think it's the opposite of selfish :)

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